So there was this site called KiwiFarms.
I am not 100% sure how to describe it but it's easy to google everyone's takes. It seems to be mostly anonymous, like 4chan, so people just say bananas shit and troll and say things that basically aren't true.
The main thing, though, for me, is that a lot of people who harassed me were on there--and it recently got hacked and all their data was leaked.
The second the news came out someone who was repeatedly--in real time online--harassing me, abruptly stopped.
If you know a game designer, or someone on twitter or on Reddit who has been claiming I did something wrong--check to see if they're still on the internet as this whole leak plays out.
If you think I did something wrong and you're reading this:
Ask that person again whether I did anything wrong and--if so--what exactly. There's a good chance they won't feel comfortable telling you any more.
For me, this is a huge break and improves my situation immensely. There was some vile right-wing shit on that site, and--as I hope you know by now--most of the people who signed on to my ex's attack weren't in earnest about it and often adopted fake personas in order to press their case.
Also: I am working on game stuff right now, so keep an eye out.